Reporting by Mike Wendling. You can listen to the programme here , or download the free podcast. Image source, Getty Images.
Students hold a vigil for the victims killed by Elliot Rodger. Image source, PUATraining. Richard La Ruina is owner of a "Pickup Artist" coaching company. Males get their social status from the status of their mothers, and some believe that bonobo society is matriarchal.
They are capable of empathy and altruism. In contrast, we can be reasonably sure that prehistoric human societies were non-hierarchical, egalitarian and cooperative , as are the majority of today's hunter-gatherer societies that have survived , and that human nature still tends towards these instincts.
Members of a society who were reproductively useless—such as women too old to bear more children—would have still been valued , as humanity was apparently not synonymous with reproduction or social status.
Early art venerated the female , not male, form, and so matriarchal societies may have been common. As kinship was not the main motivation for cooperation, it meant language, technology, and friendships spread within and between groups more easily.
From computer modelling of social interaction , it appears that egalitarianism may be an inevitable consequence of human-level intelligence. Research into what makes a human attractive is a bit strange, actually.
Spraying yourself with a love pheromone isn't going to work, but there is some element of smell involved. There's the aesthetics of body shape, and the degree to which intelligence plays a role. Weird Science 's compliant superwoman is, I'm afraid to say, a fantasy.
If we ever invent time travel, let's use it for something productive: drop pick-up artists in seventeenth-century London, seventh-century Pyongyang, eighth-century Caracol and fourteenth-century Timbuktu, give them a phrasebook, and let them test what really works. Yet, it bleeds. The days after the Isla Vista shooting, as PUAHate closed down and its members spread out to colonize other chatrooms and forums, there was debate about whether it was either a result of mental illness or a misogynist hate crime influenced by social pressures.
The two are not mutually-exclusive. The widespread acceptance of the inferiority of other human beings can have terrible, unforeseen effects in shaping the people who grow to believe it.
Reduce Africans to stupidity and strength, and it is a short leap to asserting a claim over them; reduce women to their genitals and "tribal" impulses, and it is a short leap to asserting a claim over them. The philosophy for using resource efficiently. How to improve your Pickup skills. How to interact with women. Approaching and Opening method. Advanced Field Reports F. Enter your search terms Submit search form. What's Women Hate Most If you listen to a group of attractive, single women talking alone over dinner or drinks, the topic will always turn to MEN.
Did you know this? I didn't think so. Well, the truth is that up until a few years ago, I didn't know this either. One can lead to another, but it's RARE when it happens.
Remember that. But why is this? The answer to this riddle is very interesting to me. It is NOT logic. But don't let that distract you. So let me say this another way. Now, with this in mind, let me ask you an important question: How do most guys behave around women that they're "romantically" interested in? And another: What do they do to get the woman that's the object of their desires to be with them?
Take a few minutes to think about this. Make a list if you have paper and pen handy. I'm serious. I'll wait. Come back when you're finished. Now take a look at your list. I'll bet that almost every single thing on your list was something "external". Of course, you know this. Say what? Yea, it can.
Remember what I'm about to tell you. Burn it into your mind. Write it on a sticky-note and put it on your computer monitor Let's return to where we started. I could literally write an entire book on this one single concept. This is WUSS behavior at its worst. Most guys will follow the woman everywhere, and not leave her side for a minute.
He'll stay physically close to her, as if he's afraid she'll leave without him. So what does he do? He ASKS for them! The term is "NICE". It's like trying to tell a fish that they're not going to get anywhere in life if they stay wet. The fish doesn't even KNOW it's wet in the first place. But let me try. This is important. Go spend a day observing couples.
Go places where couples that have just met spend time together. Bars, clubs, coffee shops, whatever. Now watch the GUYS. Watch how they lean towards the women. Watch how they raise their eyebrows in exaggerated response to women's comments. Well, it's not. Their voice tone, gestures, posture, etc. And you guessed it When it comes down to it, most men don't understand women. Women have a "nature".
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